Category Archives: Acknowledgement

find greater satisfaction in work and life

“The really happy people are those who have broken the chains of procrastination, those who find satisfaction in doing the job at hand. They’re full of eagerness, zest, productivity. You can be, too.”
Norman Vincent Peale

A new study just released shows that organizations have a tool to determine if employees are fully engaged in work and life.   The results of this study show that if organizations want to keep employees that they need to determine how restless the employees are.

If the research from Right Management somewhere near 84% of employees desire to find something different to do, a new  job, a new career.  Burnout it seems is high when there are financial stresses, increased demands, fewer people to do the work, and a less appreciative staff.   Everyone is feeling the pinch in an economy that is slow to recover.  

People who feel stuck in a job can carefully look at other opportunities and waiting for the right door to open.   Key players who feel they are putting in their all and getting little in return could bolt at the first opportunity.   The biggest factor in how an employee perceives their value is their manager or supervisor.  That relationship is critical and far too often that relationship isn’t what it should be.

Energy Leadership looks at energy as being either catabolic or anabolic.   Catabolic energy is defined as energy that negative in nature, it is the draining type of energy often found in people who are victims or are angry most of the time.   Shifting the energy towards an anabolic state would show an organization that employees are engaged and satisfied with their work.

Organizations can now through the use of the Energy Leadership Index determine how engaged their employees are.  They can find out just how engaged the management is as well.  It is far better to learn how well the organization is doing rather than waiting for a mass exodus and then asking the question, “Why did so many people leave?”.

What are your thoughts?   What are you looking for?

what new thoughts could you have

Have you ever wondered how many people are not living their life to their full potential?   What would happen if people did live to their full potential?

Have you ever driven to work and not realized how you got there?   Imagine that happening to your life as well.    How many people do you know that are just taking life for a drive without any destination or goal in mind?    What happens if we go through life without a destination?

“The road to happiness lies in two simple principles: find what it is that interests you and that you can do well, and when you find it, put your whole soul into it-every bit of energy and ambition and natural ability you have.”
 
John D. Rockefeller III

hope for Haiti

“When you say a situation or a person is hopeless, you are slamming the door in the face of God.”

Charles L. Allen

In light of the situation in Haiti, there are probably many who fear that the situation is hopeless.  Hope will arise, the ashes will fall, and something new will become.

Take time and support the crisis in Haiti, the poorest nation in the Western hemisphere.

just doing life

“And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.” Abraham Lincoln

Have you ever thought that you are just doing life?   Are you just going through the motions of life?   Does each day pass by with a little less of yourself in it?   Are you tired of just going through the motions?

What would it feel like to live a life that is vivid, exciting and in your hands?  What would it feel like to approach each day with a new sense of aliveness?

What makes each day memorable?

Take a moment to reflect on what is good in your life.   Take a moment to create good in your life.  Take a moment to smile, to laugh and to love.

Henry James wrote, “Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create the fact.”

are you happy?

What is your happiness index?

What makes you smile on the inside?  What tells you that you have had a great day?

On a scale of 1 – 10 (where 1 is low and 10 is high) , how happy are you?

What would it take to make you a 10?

One of the definitions of happiness says that life isn’t what you get but what you give.  What have you given lately?   Was it to charity?  Was it to someone close to you?  Was it someone you don’t even know?

What have you done for someone else lately?

activate your life

The way to activate the seeds of your creation is by making choices about the results you want to create. When you make a choice, you activate vast human energies and resources, which otherwise go untapped.
Robert Fritz

Stuck?  Where do you go?   What is the conversation you are having with yourself right now?  Is it positive?  Is it uplifting?   Is it providing you courage to take the next step?

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How do you see yourself?

Do you look in the mirror and see the person you really are or something else?

Are you genuine?

Are you authentic?

Do you want to be true to yourself?

What would it take?

What new skills would you need?

What new values would you need?

What hard question are you willing to ask yourself?

Where do you want to be in three years, five years or ten years?

What are you waiting for?

Activate your life today.

the art and practice of humility

HEART in coaching with HEART has more meaning than just the word HEART.  HEART means, humility, encouragement, acknowledgement, relationships and trust.

Having HEART means working on those five life essentials daily and it means reflecting on each element and asking the question “Did I perform them well?” In our society standing out is more important than letting others shine.

Wayne Mack writes from his book “Humility” this definition, “… a truly humble person is not arrogant and assuming in his relationship with people”.    The value opposite of humility is pride.  Pride says that “I am” all that is, I am all that others need to see or hear.  In other words pride is putting the center of focus on the individual rather than away from it.

Practicing thankfulness is one way to begin to defeat pride.   Being thankful for all of life including other people is emblematic of those who are humble.   Putting others first in all of life is an act of humility.

Pride says, “I am better than ___________”.   Pride has no room for others.

If pride takes over a person’s life then there is little room for others to share or play a part in that person’s life.  If pride pushes other people away, humility draws other people closer.

The humble person has to be able to manage emotions well, anger, bitterness, impatience, and defeatism all have to be mastered and that takes time and effort.

How would you describe yourself, humble or proud?

Do you have difficulty with pride?

Do you practice humility?

Kindness works best when

“Kindness is a language we all understand.  Even the blind can see it and the deaf can hear it.” 
                                                                                    Mother Teresa 
 

How do you spread kindness?   How do you encourage others to reach their full potential?   When was the last time you were encouraged, thanked, appreciated, or acknowledged?

If you have been acknowledged recently those around you probably haven’t been either.   What a great way to start a trend – acknowledge those around you and see what happens.   Brighten their day to brighten yours!


Talent is never enough … by John Maxwell

“Talent is never Enough” is one of the more recent books written by John Maxwell.   In his usual style the book contains lists of things to think about , act upon and learn.   “Talent is never enough” is filled with great quotes and stories.  I have found a nugget of wisdom on nearly every page of the book.   Ancient wisdom is still useful as a teaching tool in today’s world.   The condition of man has barely changed in over 2000 years – we still struggle and we search for answers to lifes questions.

Chapters like:

Belief lifts your talent

Passion energizes your talent

Initiative activates your talent

Focus directs your talent

Preparation positions your talent

and more.

 

In each chapter is a great lesson to think about and act upon.   A book well worth the time and effort to read and meditate upon.   Best of all, if you use the material your life will become better.

Be Thankful

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Reflect on what you are thankful for.  

There is always something that one can be thankful for.