“If you want your life to be a magnificent story,then realize that you are its author.” John Maxwell
What do you want your story to be? Much has been written about what makes people happy and as it turns out happiness is a story you get to write. Sometimes you find happiness in the struggles. Sometimes you find happiness in the memories. Sometimes you find happiness in realizing your strengths. Sometimes you find happiness when you give of yourself to something greater than yourself.
Happiness is often found when we do something we identify with intensely, something that is important to the core of our being. For some people the search for happiness is a never ending quest. What is your definition of happiness? Happiness is difficult to find if it isn’t first defined.
Happiness can take the form of being responsible. Abraham Lincoln said, “You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today.” If you have a goal are you working towards it? If you are making progress towards a goal – celebrate that fact. If you are struggling to make progress take smaller steps.
Maintain a regimen of discipline. “What we do on some great occasion will probably depend on what we already are; and what we are will be the result of previous years of self-discipline.”, declared Henry Parry Liddon. Develop strong habits and strong resolve and those will help take you over those times where things aren’t working as smoothly as you desire. Persistent patterns of practice will lead you in small steps to the results you desire.