“As a leader, 1st, work on yourself- increase your self-awareness. There shouldn’t be any other urgent agenda than this. Get enlightened! Know very well who you’re including your strengths, weaknesses, and blind spots!”
― Assegid Habtewold
Everyone has blind spots in their lives, an area that they are unaware of and how it can impact other people. Some people exploit blind spots to gain control or have an advantage of another person. Finding out what the blind spots are, being aware gives you a chance to live a better life.
In business executives work with coaches to help them reveal their blind spots, poor communications, anger management, overwhelm, time management, focus and more, can derail a career. Knowing what those blind spots are opportunities for getting better results.
Not everyone wants to know what their blind spots are and yet knowing them, being aware of what might cause problems, is valuable. Being blind to what others see can impact relationships, careers and friendships.
What can you do to increase personal awareness?
Ask others to share what they see when you are emotionally stressed. Ask them to share what your strengths and weaknesses are. Those are starting points to revealing the blind spots.
Organizations can have blind spots as well. People come into the organization and adopt the practices and procedures of an organization and over time lose the opportunity to understand why things are done in a certain way.
What are your blind spots? How are they affecting you?
“We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.”
― Anaïs Nin
Illusions … blind spots …we think we know and we don’t.
What do you see here?
A young lady or an old lady?
Our minds don’t see things as they are, it sees things as it believes things to be true. We have gaps in our ability to see everything around us. Now if we have visual blind spots we probably have other blind spots as well. Areas of knowledge that are incomplete. Beliefs about ourselves that are not true or beliefs we have made up to improve our own self-image.
Our blind spots are often called “weaknesses” areas in our lives that appear as shadows, that are hidden from sight, or we are totally unaware that they exist. Removing blind spots and illuminating those areas in our lives can produce startling positive outcomes. We could generate better work in our career. We could build stronger relationships with others. We could solve a myriad of problems that have eluded us for a number of years. We could start seeing what we have not seen before.
Imagine what you could do if you knew where your blind spots are? Imagine how businesses could start to thrive if they knew what their blind spots are?
Information can turn to knowledge if we seek what we are missing in our lives. Just the information about our weaknesses are can set us free from a number of things that hold us back from performing our best.
So, it’s not you that experiences or has experienced change blindness. OK, let’s see what happens. Watch this.
How did you do? Now, how many things are you missing in your own life, things that are hidden from you yet in plain sight of those around you? Imagine being able to see those things, imagine what it would be like.
That is what life/leadership/professional development/relationship/career coaches do, they work with their clients to discover blind spots. It can be transformational.
Drivers of motor vehicles know that when they look in their side mirrors that there is a place where they can’t determine if there is a vehicle there or not. That area is the blind spot. If the mirrors are properly adjusted the blind spot can be minimized or even become non-existent. Now if the rear view mirror is blocked and the side view mirrors are adjusted to eliminate the blind spot to the sides you’ll miss what is happening behind you.
Coaching is about helping people discover and eliminate their personal blind spots. Now, some would say they have no blind spots and in that case coaching wouldn’t be needed. Coaching is for those who want to make a step forward, and then another step and another until they have found all of their blind spots.
Is coaching about taking a risk? Some people would be afraid or unsure that coaching is something they could benefit from. Those people who engage in coaching are opportunity-focused. That is they see the benefits of coaching to be far greater than any perceived risks.
Could it be that we are blind to the opportunities of transformational change? In our own examined life we don’t see that there are benefits from seeking something greater than what we know now. For some the curiosity of opportunity is great, far greater than the work and effort it takes to change transformationally to something better than they are today.
“Opportunities to find deeper powers within ourselves come when life seems most challenging.” William James
I would imagine that many people are reluctant to challenge themselves for it is in those great challenges that growth is possible and in the growth is change and change creates fear which causes people to back down from the challenge. A coach helps manage the fear and assists in finding the path that leads to true growth.
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