“You are where you are and what you are because of yourself, nothing else. Nature is neutral. Nature doesn’t care. If you do what other successful people do, you will enjoy the same results and rewards that they do. And if you don’t, you won’t.”
― Brian Tracy
People with ADHD believe that they want less structure in their lives and yet the more structure they do have the more freedom they experience. Structure creates freedom.
In the mind of a person that experiences ADHD multiple thoughts disrupt a consistent behavioral pattern. That is why someone with ADHD who starts out to complete a task can be easily taken off course by noticing something that could be done (though it could be done later) that doesn’t need to be done right now.
Where does one start?
Start with a daily plan. Plan the day in 30 minute blocks and decide what is going to fill those blocks. You can span multiple blocks if you want. The idea is to schedule your day rather than you day scheduling you. Schedule your non-work hours as well.
Start with something simple (as shown below) and extend it for the full day. You can use it to track where you time is going and then make some decisions on how you want to spend your time.
Get your day working for you.
Find out how you are spending your time (what is the reality) and then review that information. Use that information to make some decisions on how you want to spend your time.
After you know where the time is going create the schedule that will work for you. If time is being lost in unproductive or useless activities schedule that time for something that is beneficial for you.
To get start track how your time is being spent for a week. Track all the things you do. It doesn’t have to be super precise, just good enough to understand what is really happening in your life.
We’ll look at ways to turn unproductive time into productive time next time.