“Happiness is like a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.” Nathaniel Hawthorne
Happiness is something many people strive for and fail to achieve. Happiness can be elusive to some and easy to obtain for others. A new film called “Happy” is documenting happiness, where it is found and how people live a life of happiness.
Recent research provides some steps to achieve greater happiness. The study of happiness is growing and is a reflection of the positive psychology movement and the strengths movement. Markus Buckingham one of the leaders in the strengths movement shows people why strengths are important in this short video. People that use their strengths are happier. Don’t know your strengths then got to viastrengths and find out what your strengths are.
Another aspect of happiness is purpose. Having a purpose increases happiness. Knowing who you are what you are gifted at doing and having the ability to use those gifts increases happiness. If you haven’t found your purpose or aren’t sure you have a purpose take a look at this. See if you can figure out your purpose, you’ll be happier when you do have a defined purpose.
The third element of happiness is developing relationships. Relationships that work well increase happiness. As we approach the holiday season many people feel stressed due to the fact many relationships aren’t what they should be. Here are some hints on dealing with broken relationships.
Three steps to increase happiness.
1. Know your purpose
2. Strong and deep relationships
3. Knowing and using your strengths.
What are you doing to increase your happiness? Happiness is part choice, part development and to some degree inherited qualities. Choose to be happier. Choose to develop your strengths and choose to develop deep and meaningful relationships and you will be happier. Maybe you have a story about how you found happiness, what is it?